Secret Friends

The world teaches us many things and we keep growing every day, we see people who bother us often for no reason.

When you listen to a bad comment how do you feel? You get hurt and keep thinking of that for a long time, if you can invest this time on improving things instead of thinking and feeling low, you would get benefit out of it and it brings the beautiful changes in your life.

For instance, somebody has commented badly about your knowledge, he/she said you are useless, you do not have enough knowledge, when you hear those comments initially you may feel bad, but, if you take his/her words in a positive way you would learn new things and that makes you a better person, here, indirectly he/she is making you a better person.

If you take same words in a negative way you would lose your temper and it doesn't help you to grow.

So, here your enemy (secret friend) makes you a better person by giving these bad comments.

I will give you another example, if you have an enemy and he starts criticizing you about your body structure and your extra fat just to hurt you, how do you feel? again, initially you get hurt and feel like beating him, if you really do that you would not get anything, but if you take those words seriously and start exercising you will have the best body and stay healthy, see, again he helped you indirectly, he is your secret friend, he is making your body and health perfect.

There is a guy who is passionate about innovative things and his enemies always discouraged him, their actions made this guy stronger, you know, how? That moment he strongly decided to show them and he has shown, now, he is a successful businessman in a very different field, he started this business with his innovative ideas, his secret friends helped him to make this happened soon.

One of my friends used to work for other researchers and authors to finish their works, he had some enemies in his lab, but he never treated them like enemies, but they always used to disturb this guy by giving him extra works, he used to work day and nights, his enemies thought that they are disturbing him and not allowing him to do his own works, he kept working like this and actually these enemies (secret friends) helped him to gain knowledge and improve his writing skills which made him perfect in his field and today he got the best opportunity in world's best lab, his secret friends made him perfect by giving him extra work, he always took this opportunity to grow in his career and got the best results.

Believe in one thing, our enemies (secret friends) make us better persons.

It doesn’t mean to make enemies, but, take their words to make you perfect in your life and thank them for becoming a reason to achieve your goals soon.

And do not forget to thank your SECRET FRIENDS.

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- Shree Ambica