Extra Mile

When bad things happen to us they follow us, they don’t allow us to be happy, but, there are some ways to be happy Stop being emotional – it halts your growth Stop talking nonsense - it wastes your time Stop wasting your time – because you cannot bring that second back Stop thinking of past – it doesn’t help you to do anything Stop feeling low – it would make you feel lower Stop missing people – it makes you an emotional fool Stop pleasing people – there are other ways too Stop talking negative things – it gives you more stress Stop being lazy - because you have very less time to achieve your goals Stop escaping from problems – because, you must find a permanent solution  Stop spreading hatred – it would make you crazy Stop depending on people – because, being independent gives you more satisfaction Stop underestimating others – because, you can never know about hidden talents Stop knotting bonds - it makes you weak

Once Upon A Time, Someone loved to see you smile and now the same person is loving to see you cry Someone found reasons to be with you and now the same person is finding excuses to get rid of you Someone made you feel proud and now the same person is making you feel ashamed Someone celebrated your success and now the same person doesn't even care about your success Someone encouraged you to grow and now the same person  is discouraging you to fall Someone made you emotionally strong and now the same person is making you an emotional fool Someone listened to you everytime and now you can't find him/her to share things Someone loved you and now the same person dislikes you Someone held your hand when you were in trouble, and now....., hello, don't even try to see him/her, you can't see him/her anymore Well, at some point in life we get attached to someone, that someone can be anyone, your best friend, life partner, sibling or colleague But,

The world teaches us many things and we keep growing every day, we see people who bother us often for no reason. When you listen to a bad comment how do you feel? You get hurt and keep thinking of that for a long time, if you can invest this time on improving things instead of thinking and feeling low, you would get benefit out of it and it brings the beautiful changes in your life. For instance, somebody has commented badly about your knowledge, he/she said you are useless, you do not have enough knowledge, when you hear those comments initially you may feel bad, but, if you take his/her words in a positive way you would learn new things and that makes you a better person, here, indirectly he/she is making you a better person. If you take same words in a negative way you would lose your temper and it doesn't help you to grow. So, here your enemy (secret friend) makes you a better person by giving these bad comments. I will give you another example